Wednesday, 16 May 2012

what are we meant to do if our world begina to crumble

Well what are we meant to do if our world begins to crumble. Currently I am struggling with that and I don't know quite what to do.I have tried sooo hard not to get mad cause conflict or even be a bad sonbut I think I may have completely screwed up my relationship with my mother and possibly father too. I ask questions although in the wrong way I want thi and I want that. Well a hint for the future to everyone else ask what do you want or what do you think of this idea or I have had this come up what do you think. Try it. It'll save you a lot of hurt. I was told that I may have hurt my family more than ever today and its all because of me and my life style. And wanting. It felt as if my world was crumbling, my life torn in two and no where to go. But I am thankful that I have a strong group of friends and a very supportive girlfriend. They helped me tremendously through and still are to get back on my feet dust myself off and try again. If you are struggling call in your support team, if you don't have one comment below and I WILL help as best I can. There comes a time in life where you get knocked down and you can usually get back up, then there's a time when you get hit by a sledge hammer to the face, well this may be harder to recover from, but this is where you need the other people to carerry you forward. I strongly suggest finding those people willing to help and don't be afraid to ask for the help. As many fail to ask and many will not make it to their goals. Remember this. GOD LIVES YOU AND WILL CARRY YOU TO THE END

Tuesday, 24 April 2012

What are we supposed to do with the equation of life

So what are we supposed to do with our equation of life. For all you biology nuts out there this is not a post about the equation for respiration. This post is designed to challenge those tosing with the decision of their emotions. To those of us who are in a relationship, have had a crush or fancy that someone at school or work I pose this question, 'How do you know if you are in love and if it will last?'

To be honest you dont and probably wont for a very long time. Even after marriage and children, even though there are those glimers of lovebut, there is still a chance that your partner can leave you. I have through my few and first experience defined love at constantly thinking of what the other person wants, however recently I have not done so. Most people are or have come to this postion in my relationship, you become comfortable with the person you are with and because of that let your guard down and end up showing a different side of yourself to them or at least let loose the full effect of your emotions.

This showing of emotions or other side may scare the person and change there emotions, but then ask them and yourself, why did you date me or fall in love with me expecting all and only good things?. All people have good and bad qualities and this begs the question of what is so bad in a relationship that means the one party has to leave, especially if you 'love' each other.

Anyways comment below and let me know your opinions on love, what you define it by, similar experiences and maybe I can help.